The workshop is set up so that you do not have to talk publicly at any time, either in small groups or in the large group.  We do ask for couples to assist us in demonstrating the processes we are teaching, and couples who feel comfortable with this elect to do so.  No pressure is placed on anyone to share or reveal personal concerns or issues.  The workshop is mostly an educational experience.  You practice new skills alone with your partner and your issues are completely private.